Thursday, January 6, 2011

Victim Impact Statement

Your Honor,
My 14 year old daughter, Dawn-Marie Wesley was threatened and bullied between November 5 and November 10, 2000. She could not get help because she thought if she tried to get help, it would get worse. She thought there was no way out, so she commit suicide. Initially, my daughter and the girl convicted of criminal harassment were friends. During the last days of her life the offender yelled at my daughter saying you are dead in a very offensive, mean way. In a suicide note, all she told me that she is ending her life because three girls at her school are after her. She said that they are always looking for a new person to beat up. She also said that they are the toughest girls in her school. My son found her hanging in a closet in our family home.
This has impacted my life a lot. This changed my life emotionally and physically. She was my only daughter. This will always be a memory to me. Every time I hear the word bullying, my daughter comes to my mind. My daughter makes me burst into tears. I can never forgive the bully. What did she get from bullying my daughter? Nothing…absolutely nothing. What did my daughter do to them that they bully her? How would they feel if I bullied them? These girls should get a life-time jail. All of them, not just one. I will do anything to get my daughter back. Even if it means to lose my house or anything valuable. This has affected me in a lot of ways. The way it affected me physically is that I don’t feel like doing anything. I don’t want to eat anything. I have gotten weaker. I sometimes think too much that my head starts to hurt. I don’t even have the energy to get out of bed. This has affected me emotionally aswell. Sometimes my emotions take over me and I can’t control myself. I feel like destroying everything. I feel like getting revenge. I don’t want to hear anything about bullying or watch anyone getting bullied. I wash my daughter’s clothes, clean her shoes and I have even have her handwriting framed. I want to keep her memories alive. It makes me feel alive. I want to keep looking at her face the whole day. The way I was affected mentally is that sometimes I just can't stop myself from doing something. For example, I can't stop myself from burning my daughter's pictures. The pictures remind me a lot of my daughter and good memories. Good memories that I want to remember. But the pictures also bring back a lot of bad memories. Bad memories that I don't want to remember. I wish there was a way that I can go to the past. But I know that can't happen, so I want justice. I want these girls to understand how it feels to lose something that is so precious to you. More precious than your own life. I wonder how my son feels about this. This has changed his life as well. He is awfully quiet now. He doesn't talk to anyone, he doesn't eat, he doesn't go out to play or hang out with his friends  anymore. Sometimes he doesn't realize what he is doing, he has dropped a lot of marks in his school already. He doesn't seem to care about anything now. My daughter had her own dreams too. She had a lot to accomplish. It feels like all my dreams are dead. I know all this is not going to get my daughter back to life or something. But these girls can learn a lesson from this. I know that nothing goes as you wish,  I know they are not going to get life time jail because I'm not the president or judge or something. But I still hope these girls learned a valuable lesson from this. I don't care what kind of punishment they get. My daughter is already dead and I can't change the past. So all I'm looking for here is fair justice. I don't care if they are sent to the justice circle or jail or an island. I just want plain, fair justice and I also want them to learn the valuable lesson.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Schoolyard Bully Convicted - Summary

Schoolyard Bully Convicted, by Glenn Bohn is about a 14 year old girl who commits suicide. Dawn-Marie Wesley, from Mission, B.C hung herself in a family home on November. 10, 2000. The schoolyard bully who cannot be named because she was charged under the federal Young Offenders Act was 15 years old at the time. Initially, Wesley and the girl convicted of criminal harassment were friends. They had sleepovers and had spent Halloween together. Dawn-Marie was threatened between November 5 and 10, during the last day of her life. On the day of suicide, the offender yelled at Dawn-Marie saying: "You are f---ing dead". In a suicide note she told her parents she was ending her life because three tough girls at her school were after her. "If I try to get help, it will get worse," Dawn-Marie wrote. "They are always looking for a new person to beat up and they are the toughest girls." The bully said she "very much" regrets her actions. "Please do not hold yourself accountable for her death," Cindy Wesley, the mother of suicide victim Dawn-Marie, tells another teenager in the bullying case."

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Science Lab "The Amazing Egg"

The Amazing Floating Egg Lab

Ingredients
Observation of egg in water before adding ingredients
# of teaspoons added
Observations when ingredient added
Observation when water carefully added
Salt








Egg sank to the bottom.



5 tps.

Egg slowly started to float.

It sank again.
Epsom Salt

Egg sank to the bottom.





 
8 tps.

Egg slowly started to float.

It kept on floating.
Sugar

Egg sank to the bottom.






4.5 tps.
 
Egg slowly started to float.

It sank again.
Baking Soda

Egg sank to the bottom.






6 tps.

Egg slowly started to float.

It was not floating and it didn't sink either. It was in the middle.



Conclusion
·         What did you notice while using each ingredient?
·         Why do you think this occurred (use scientific language)?
·         Did everything go well during the lab? If no, what would you change next time?
      Each ingredient made the water a little more denser. Then it came to a point that the water was denser than the egg. So the egg started to float.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Progress Reports Reflection

  1. What do you think of your progress report?  What are you happy with?  Why are you not happy with? 
  2. What can you do during term 2 in order to improve your progress report?
I think my progress report was pretty good. I am happy with it. My parents are happy with it. Mr. Catton is happy with it...I think. I think I could have done a little better in Language Arts and Socials Studies. I need to work on writing skills like lenghty, smooth flowing paragraphs. I also want to continue working on researching skills to make my research a little more detailed. But overall I think I did a good job.

Thursday, November 18, 2010

When someone meets me the first time...

When someone meets me the first time, I think the first thing they notice is my smile. I am always smiling when I meet someone the first time. It makes the other person feel good. Secondly, I think they notice the way I talk. I think that beacuse I usually talk frankly with other people. I am 85% of the time in a good mood. The other 15%....let's just say other than happy. Although someone can't really tell who I am by just looking at me. But I can be wrong because I can be a little over protective sometimes.

When I meet someone the first time...

When I meet someone the first time, I judge them by their looks, face expressions and how they talk to others. I don't really care about how they are dressed but sometimes it does matter. Sometimies clothing does tell a little about someone you meet the first time. Clothing can tell what kind of colours the person likes or dislikes. Looks and face expressions tell about the persons personality. If the person is smiling that tells about the person's mood and if they are confident or not. If the person is quiet, that tells if the person is shy or insecure. But after all you can't tell anything about the person untill you meet them.